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How to get confidence in your self

Kuch din pahlay , Tv pay aik video dekhe...is video main do magarmach jo k aik dosray k size k equal hoty hain..woh aik dosray k samnay atay hain...or aik dosray ko khana chahty hain...yeh aik heran kun baat thee..bhala aik janwar jis ka apna mun or wazan utna hai woh kise dosray janwar ko kasay apnay mun main dal k negal lay ga..jo k ose k size k brabar hai... phir yun huva...k dono magarmach nay apna mun khola...or aik dosray ko mun main dalnay ki koshish ki...aisay main , aik magarmach dosray ko pora apnay mun main dal leta hai...bazahir lagta hai jasay jo magarmach pait main chala gaya woh to mar gaya...par thore dair bad , jis magarmach nay nay dosray ko negla hota hai...woh usay hazam nai kar pata apnay pait main...or us k pait k andar say wohee magarmach us k mun k rastay say baher nekal ata hai...zinda... or jis magarmach nay dosray ko negla hota hai...woh mar jata hai.... yeh practice bare sabak amoz thee maray liyay...is say manay boath kuch sekha.... yun he insani moashra hai....yahan jab do nay loog apas main miltay hain...chahay woh koi class ho , family occasion ho , office job ho hata k aik teacher or student he kyu na ho...woh do magarmachon ki tarhan hotay hain....aisay main dono he apni apni personality khol k dosray k samnay beyan karty hain...lakin hota yun hai...k in dono main say koi aik dosray ko kha jata hai....or jo aik dafa kha jata hai...woh wapis kabhe sar nai utha pata..............Nai samjhay ??? Confidence ko hasil karnay ka bhe yahee asool hai...jis k samnay bhe app pesh ho rahay hoon...jis say bhe app ka muqabla ho...app ko sirf or sirf aik dafa apna confidence , power or skills us k samnay sabit karni....phir woh hamisha k liyay app k mun main chalay ga...or woh app ko man jayay ga ...app ki ability ka kail ho jay ga.... lakin yad rakhain...yun he dosray bhe app ko kha jatay hain..ap kisi administration main hoty hain....jahan jis nay aik dafa apna app app say better show kar deya....app unintentionally he , apnay dil main he , us shaks ko khud say behtar samjnay lagty hain...or app samjty hain k yeh mujh say zaida janta hai,....goya woh shaks app ko kha jata hai... yun he school , college , job main app ko apna app show karna hota hai...pora mun khool k...agar aik dafa bus aik dafa kuch waqt k liyay app nay apna app show kar deya....to confidence he confidence... lakin lakin lakin......agar app kuch dair ki nakam koshish main apna confidence or ability zaher na kar sakay , to app ose magarmach ki tarah maray jayain gain...jo pahlay to dosray ko kaha jata hai , phir akher main khud mar jata hai.... app ka confidence aisa bura totay ga...k app us shaks k agay dobara confidence pa he nai sakty....ya to dosray ko kha jayain...ya dosray ki khurak ban jayain... is waqt main app sub ko kha gaya hoon....kasy ?? jab yeh page bana...kae loog nayay thay yahah !! jo muje janty bhe nai thay...jino nay mare koi degree ya qualification nai dekhe thee... shuru shuru main main woh muje tang keya karty thay , tanay bhe deya karty thay...k yeh kahan say a gaya sir !!! lakin ahesta ahesat manay sabit kar deya...k mary pass knowledge hai... un logon nay muje koi certificate nai deya...par dil main he accept kar leya....ab woh sir sir kahty hain...waja ???? main unay kha gaya!!!! aik dafa kha gaya.... skype classes main rang barangee dunya main bhe yun he hamain kha jana hota hai dosray ko...dosray ko convince kar k... yad rakhain....is waqt app kae logon ko kha chukay hain....or kae app ko kha chukay hain....kae ko app foran chup kara detay hain kae k samnay app bol he nai sakty........... yahe confidence hai....bus aik dafa hemat kar k kha jayain...dosray ko....phir app ki jeet.........warna yakenan app ko koi or kha jay ga !!! Keep Learning !!!
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